I know, I'm a mean mom. But for many, many years I have respected the idea that the kids' bedrooms are their own spaces and, other than food and drink not being allowed there on a long-term basis, I'm pretty hands-off. That said, I have always told them that I reserve the right to search their rooms unannounced, should I ever suspect dangerous drug use and therefore have a reason to do so. I'm happy to say that I have never secretly searched any of their rooms. (Yes, I am aware that Kat has an empty Jack Daniels box, Peter has a beer poster...)
But now I want my house back, and that means five clean, orderly bedrooms. Is that too much to ask?
Oh... and -- this?
Um, yeah. That's our room, taken this morning. In the spirit of parental transparency, I guess it's only fair to post this because -- well, hey, it was a busy week, OK? It's not like I'll insist that it was a busy TEN years (about the length of time since any of the kids have given their rooms a good cleaning)! But I'll clean it... right now, in fact, because Christel, the German housekeeper I hope to hire today, is coming by to see what she'll be dealing with. I have a feeling she'll be happy to hear that I don't expect her to set foot in any bedroom but ours!
Oh, and while I was at it, I took a picture of Kat and her new boyfriend, Stevo. Are they cute, or what?!
Robbie's room drives me nuts... I feel your pain!
ReplyDeleteSweet picture of the kids! And I'm with you on the bedroom thing. But C and I do turn it upside down once a year or so, to clear things out that he's absolutely NOT using.
ReplyDeleteTotally understand the bedroom issues - I have one still left at home and I wouldn't go inside his room without a HazMat suit, but I've very much enjoyed having one extra clean bedroom, with my older son at school.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm glad I found your blog! I'm looking to update my blogroll, getting rid of the mommyblogs and adding more "mature" women! (I'm so sick of reading about poopy diapers.)